Reblog of an article. Some potent thoughts around the stigma, and challenges, of dealing with a miscarriage and why most women feel they have to keep it a secret. I know that even within the Pagan community, which works to be more accepting of women’s bodies and cycles, it’s only in the past years I’ve seen women coming out about going through a miscarriage.
WHY WE SHOULDN’T HAVE TO KEEP PREGNANCY A SECRET FOR THE FIRST TRIMESTER
“But as I stumbled my way through the online world of miscarriage and infertility and pregnancy and loss, I discovered a virtual sea of women who were reaching out to someone, something, so as not to drown in their own feelings of isolation and guilt.”
“The realities of making a baby are thus: 10 to 20 percent of all pregnancies end in miscarriage.”